Relationships

I been in the game 21 years. And I know about the opposite sex quite well,not as well as I should but,what im sayin is Ima give a rundown of my past flames and outlook on the new flame. I have had many girls around me since high school. I was smart,played sports,and was funny,but I was never into the whole :groupie: mentality.......which is why I never dated a girl from my town ever. I would rather find a girl who didnt know what I accomplished and want to get to know me first not what I can do. So I have only had 5 girlfriends since Jr. high.I can be man enough to say none of them ended the way I wanted them 2. I had 2 girls cheat on me,2 we always argued over petty shit,and that last one was the one that hurt the worst. She fell in "love" with another guy. But heres the kicker the dude didnt feel that about her,and was fucking other girls. That really fucked me up. When I like a girl now,I have to establish a sorta friendship to try to see her character first before going full on. And I will leave from talking to a girl if its something hidden from my knowledge,I dont wanna know everything,but If I need to know it dont keep it from me and then lie. The smallest things can make me leave a girl "I like".I will leave too if I feel like nothings gonna come from us,like if its been a couple months and no dates visits nothing just a couple chillin......thats not enough im sorry. Im good to a girl when I with one. I dont cheat never have,I try to give the world if I can,so if a little time is all that matters most to me. Tell your friends not tonight Im hanging with my baby or something cus I do the same. I hate groupie hoes cus they see u and ur girl happy and they want the same happiness. Dont rush relationships,they be the quickest ones to end. Status change one day on facebook to change the next week. and who stuck looking stupid? it aint us,cus we dont care. The girls that flaunt there love are inscure,if u arent engaged there is no need to do that. If you happy with your mate he is the only who should know out loud. the others can see through interactions. I like to take my time to get to know a girl. I have had good i have had bad but I have not had the greatest type yet but Im working on that. and when I get it I feel like its all coming full circle. Real Realtionships are based around understanding,listening,communication,and security.